31 Days of Wisdom: Day 6 - Proverbs 6

Proverbs 6 Background
Proverbs 6 has two sections. The first section contains four independent Wisdom sayings, and the second section is a father’s lecture to his son. The father warns his son that adultery is a self-destructive practice.

Proverbs 6 - Dangerous Promises
1 My son, if you become surety for your friend,
If you have shaken hands in pledge for a stranger,
2 You are snared by the words of your mouth;
You are taken by the words of your mouth.
3 So do this, my son, and deliver yourself;
For you have come into the hand of your friend:
Go and humble yourself;
Plead with your friend.
4 Give no sleep to your eyes,
Nor slumber to your eyelids.
5 Deliver yourself like a gazelle from the hand of the hunter,
And like a bird from the hand of the fowler.
The Folly of Indolence
6 Go to the ant, you sluggard!
Consider her ways and be wise,
7 Which, having no captain,
Overseer or ruler,
8 Provides her supplies in the summer,
And gathers her food in the harvest.
9 How long will you slumber, O sluggard?
When will you rise from your sleep?
10 A little sleep, a little slumber,
A little folding of the hands to sleep—
11 So shall your poverty come on you like a prowler,
And your need like an armed man.
The Wicked Man
12 A worthless person, a wicked man,
Walks with a perverse mouth;
13 He winks with his eyes,
He shuffles his feet,
He points with his fingers;
14 Perversity is in his heart,
He devises evil continually,
He sows discord.
15 Therefore his calamity shall come suddenly;
Suddenly he shall be broken without remedy.
16 These six things the Lord hates,
Yes, seven are an abomination to Him:
17 A proud look,
A lying tongue,
Hands that shed innocent blood,
18 A heart that devises wicked plans,
Feet that are swift in running to evil,
19 A false witness who speaks lies,
And one who sows discord among brethren.
Beware of Adultery
20 My son, keep your father’s command,
And do not forsake the law of your mother.
21 Bind them continually upon your heart;
Tie them around your neck.
22 When you roam, they will lead you;
When you sleep, they will keep you;
And when you awake, they will speak with you.
23 For the commandment is a lamp,
And the law a light;
Reproofs of instruction are the way of life,
24 To keep you from the evil woman,
From the flattering tongue of a seductress.
25 Do not lust after her beauty in your heart,
Nor let her allure you with her eyelids.
26 For by means of a harlot
A man is reduced to a crust of bread;
And an adulteress will prey upon his precious life.
27 Can a man take fire to his bosom,
And his clothes not be burned?
28 Can one walk on hot coals,
And his feet not be seared?
29 So is he who goes in to his neighbor’s wife;
Whoever touches her shall not be innocent.
30 People do not despise a thief
If he steals to satisfy himself when he is starving.
31 Yet when he is found, he must restore sevenfold;
He may have to give up all the substance of his house.
32 Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding;
He who does so destroys his own soul.
33 Wounds and dishonor he will get,
And his reproach will not be wiped away.
34 For jealousy is a husband’s fury;
Therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance.
35 He will accept no recompense,
Nor will he be appeased though you give many gifts.

Pastor's Reflection
For the commandment is a lamp, And the law a light; Reproofs of instruction are the way of life, -Proverbs 6:23 NKJV

Solomon emphasizes the perfect guidance provided by God's Word (Psalm 119:105). It acts as a lamp for one's immediate surroundings, showing where to step. Also, it serves as a light to blaze the trail ahead, so the obedient believer sees what lies ahead. The Hebrew worldview associated light with truth, goodness, and knowledge. The presence of light makes a situation clearer, safer, and more open.

By reading and heeding God's Word, believers can discern what lies around them and what looms before them. The unbeliever lives in spiritual darkness, but the believer can better interpret their surroundings (1 Corinthians 2:14–16). Also, believers can trust God regarding what lies in the future. Knowing that God is in control of both the present and the future gives the believer peace and direction.

At the same time, the Word of God gives the believer reproofs of discipline. If a believer strays from the right path, the Holy Spirit uses the Word for conviction—it tells us when we go wrong. Scripture assures us that God's discipline is for our good (Hebrews 12:5–6). The reproofs and discipline are not pleasant, but they assure us that God is our loving heavenly Father who uses both to make us more righteous (Hebrews 12:7–11).

Reflections
1. What sticks out you in Proverbs 6? What verses resonate with you?

2. Proverbs 6 talks about some destructive behaviors in our life. What are some behaviors that we need to change in our lives?

3. How will you apply Proverbs 6 in your life?